Have you ever sensed that tithing could become so routine and automatic that it seems to have lost the “why” behind it and “Who” we do it for? I have noticed that in some families, tithing can become so routine that both spouses and children feel distant and lose their sense of involvement and participation. They may even forget that tithing is a regular, prioritized practice.
There can be long-term impacts of this distancing to our families. I have spoken to parents that have always been faithful givers but have not seen that passion transfer to their children. Because of this, I purposely stopped “auto-withdrawal” for the tithe when our kids were young. I ensured they were a part of this process as much as possible.
Have you ever thought about utilizing a short ceremony each month for the tithe? It can be a powerful way to mentor your spouse and children and model giving to them. It can create forever memories that shape their view of giving long-term.
Here are some ideas for that time together:
A. When you tithe, gather your spouse and children together.
B. Spend a few minutes in prayer, thanking the Lord for His provision, and for the privilege to return what He is provided back for His glory. Allow all to participate in prayer that would like to.
C. Rotate who gets to “push the button” or write the check or give the cash vs. the same person all the time.
D. When thank you notes, or receipt letters come, allow them to also open those and read them together so they can share in the impact report.
What are some meaningful ways you have practiced tithing with your family? I’m eager to hear your unique ideas. Your creative approaches could inspire others find new ways to involve their loved ones in the practice of giving.